A Colombian friend of mine sent this to me about Indian Spirituality. Though these are great as principles, I wanted to add my thoughts, so read on…
The First Principle states:
“Whomsoever you encounter is the right one”
This means that no one comes into our life by chance. Everyone who is around us, anyone with whom we interact, represents something, whether to teach us something or to help us improve a current situation.
The Second Principle states:
“Whatever happened is the only thing that could have happened”
Nothing, absolutely nothing of that which we experienced could have been any other way. Not even in the least important detail. There is no “If only I had done that differently…, then it would have been different…”. No. What happened is the only thing that could have taken place and must have taken place for us to learn our lesson in order to move forward. Every single situation in life, which we encounter, is absolutely perfect, even when it defies our understanding and our ego.
The Third Principle states:
“Each moment in which something begins is the right moment”
Everything begins at exactly the right moment, neither earlier nor later. When we are ready for it, for that something new in our life, it is there, ready to begin.
This is the Fourth Principle, the final one:
“What is over, is over”
It is that simple. When something in our life ends, it helps our evolution. That is why, enriched by the recent experience, it is better to let go and move on.
It is no coincidence that you are reading this, but it strikes a certain chord in you. In my analysis these are based of Karma, an Indian philosophy. Intelligent design. Karma. Maybe!!
Here are my thoughts...
Yeah, sure I am happy, always, even at times when objectively I shouldn’t be. What is so annoying about those four laws is that they are just not true. You can play this game of "what if"??
What I have trouble is “the wrong place”. Who knows? Sometimes the wrong place is the wrong place. Sometimes the wrong place turns out to be a good place. Sometimes the right place turns out to be just so much misfortune.
Also “What is over, is over”, it is completely wrong. Sometimes we can resurrect the things that are over, because it is up to us.. Many times it is just a misunderstanding or miscommunication that causes the problem, just because of that you cannot leave it on luck or destiny, because you have the power to change things.
We the humans use our intellect in order to make us feel better/justify our existence, our decisions, and the things we cannot explain we say "that's how the things should be" or "god made it this way".
I believe sometimes we have control on our lives and sometimes we do not, and not because....but because of circumstances such as government, laws, etc.
I hope that "Whatever happened is the only thing that could have happened" is because I had some say in it.
Life’s a bitch and then you die. If somewhere along the way you meet some good folk and wring some enjoyment out of your time here then you win. Regardless how many toys and money you have. But it’s best to be civil and treat others the way you’d like to be treated…Peace!!